Reddit Aita Infertile, post your stories inquiring if you are or would be the asshole. 5 years to conceive and there's nothing wrong with my fertility I'm not infertile, this woman calling herself infertile after 4 months is disgusting and offensive. NTA. My sister (30F), on the other hand, had 13 miscarriages before she was deemed infertile. 6K votes, 182 comments. I may be the AH because these comments only made her feel worse. . It's been an emotional rollercoaster, filled with doctor's appointments, treatments, and constant disappointment. But you cannot expect everyone who has ever known about your infertility to just not talk about their pregnancy if there’s a chance you might hear about it. Yeah but saying ‘Oh I was worried I had become infertile!’ in front of your medically infertile sister-in-law is still bad taste. Horrible how they were all gossiping about OPs infertility issues Reply reply more repliesMore replies Cousiniscrazy • In Reddit's AITA one poster shares how her sister — who has dealt with infertility — treated her after finding out she was pregnant. Aged 13, 12 and 9. In fact, pregnancy is a topic that might be one of the most challenging to talk about. 7K votes, 673 comments. Help keep the sub engaging! AITA For Telling My Sister That She Shouldn't Overvalue Herself And Prepare For 藍 The Worse? Also, infertile people sometimes are able to conceive naturally and carry a pregnancy to term without complications. This subreddit is just for those learning to live with the permanent end of that dream, and creating a new and different life than the one they’d imagined. My wife (65F) and I (67M) have two kids: Sarah (38F) and Adam (35M), both of whom have spouses whom we love dearly. This is exactly what I'm thinking. No one is saying that being infertile is because of karma. AITA for telling my infertile sister i’m happy she’ll never get to experience the joy of motherhood? I (20F) am extremely fertile. Adoption is painful and messy and traumatic and expensive and people going that route need to be in it 100%. AITA for cancelling a check of $12,000 that I wrote for my infertile friend for her next IVF cycle over a joke? Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. Taking the posts seriously is heavily discouraged. Not condoning OP’s tone, but that was my first thought. 16K votes, 1. We separated, later divorcing, when our youngest was only 4 months Not everyone’s infertility journey ends in a baby, despite what movies would have you believe. Insanely breedable and fertile. 14M subscribers in the AmItheAsshole community. I get that infertility sucks and can be emotionally devastating. And when my rainbow baby was born I felt like I could smile again without feeling guilt for being happy. You can't process Sarah's emotions around infertility for her. I (17f) was removed from my birth parent's house a few years ago, along with my siblings (13m and 7f, my full brother and… Get out of my head. Discover perspectives on boundaries, support, and fair treatment in relationships. They’re saying that it’s karma that she was slut-shaming OP for getting pregnant, and now she can’t get pregnant herself. 1. They met with an obstetrician a year ago who unfortunately informed them that Mary is infertile and her body would never be able to produce or carry a child. Are they the asshole or not? Because it sounds like your wife didn’t want kids, which was a separate issue from her infertility. Memes allowed, shitposts only on weekends. 9K comments. This was devastating news for Mary, as she has wanted to be a mother since we were children. 197 votes, 72 comments. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place… 1. the… (1) I told my MIL that I was infertile despite this not being true to get her to stop asking me about my fertility choices (2) she was very upset by this as she will never have grandkids and my partner's brother's wife is actually infertile so I reinvigorated that trauma needlessly. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my sister that she may be better off being infertile. Dec 22, 2024 · AITA for kicking my MIL out of our home after she made a cruel comment about my infertility? (self. 33K subscribers in the AITA_WIBTA_PUBLIC community. Without my wife around so much I occasionally crave social interaction with other adults. I will admit I found baby showers tough after a year but not to the point I would ever make it someone's business at the shower. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales of your local reddit heroes seeking validation. 11M subscribers in the AmItheAsshole community. It was hard seeing new babies for awhile but gradually seeing a little one would make me smile a little rather than want to cry. The Reddit AITA Board Entertainment website Pages 󱙿 Other 󱙿 Brand 󱙿 Website 󱙿 Entertainment website 󱙿 Ethics Explored: Reddit AITA 󱙿 Videos 󱙿 When this man feels guilty, he asks Reddit: 'AITA For Showing Up To A Party With My Pregnant Wife That My Ex Was At?' I (35m) used to be married to my high school sweetheart 'Kelly' (35f). OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I feel like I was wrong for wishing permanent infertility on my sister rather than realising she did what she did out of jealousy Help keep the sub engaging! Adopted kids aren't consolation prizes for the infertile. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place… She and her sister got into a fight in our house, and her sister screamed, "AT LEAST I DON'T TAKE PILLS BEHIND MY HUSBAND’S BACK AND CLAIM I'M INFERTILE! DOES HE KNOW YOU HAD AN ABORTION??" "AITA for not supporting my ex-husband and his wife after their many years of infertility?" I (30s) have three children with my ex-husband Nick (30s). The woman severely medically neglected OP, which is a form of abuse, one that almost killed her and has left her infertile and dealing with severe pain for years and years. I have a total of 10 kids, youngest being 3 months old and Im currently 7 months pregnant. It sounds like a horrible statement on the surface, but here comes Being pregnant, knowing someone who is pregnant, having anything to do with a pregnancy - these are all experiences that bring out a variety of emotions and behaviors. #reddit #redditdrama #satisfyingvideos #storytime #foryou Husband Divorced Me With Pre-Prepared Papers When I Found Out I Was Infertile, #redditstorie #aita #redditstories #redditposts #reddit AITA for telling my throw away all her stuff including her wedding dress before I’d 🏘 move back 🌟 in? AITA for telling my infertile in-laws that their 呂 dog is not equal to a ⭐ child? AITA For Canceling My Sister’s Baby Shower After She Mocked My Infertility In Front Of Everyone? -Reddit Stories #reddit #redditposts #redditstories 116 Likes, TikTok video from user1810433729470 (@cfkftgeap): “Explore a family's challenges when dealing with infertility. (25F) My sister (28F) “Mary” and her husband (30M) “Jack” started trying for a baby three years ago. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Yes! As someone who took 2. #aita #reddit #redditreadings”. When the sister requested that she Apr 19, 2024 · Reddit AITA gives advice for new dad who didn't think of his sister's feelings and infertility struggles when celebrating the birth of his son. Infertility is devastating - but we all have live with the hand we’re dealt and it’s entirely unreasonable for infertile women to expect fertile women to tip toe around them and their feelings. We got married after undergrad and overall I AITA for being enraged that my husband is "currently" infertile? #fyp #redditstories #tldrstoryteller #storytime #reddit #SubwaySurfers My mother told everyone I was INFERTILE to explain why I wasn't having kids, so l announced my PREGNANCY at her birthday party. AITA for telling my husband off for wanting me to let my infertile BIL and his wife experience child birth by being with me in the delivery room? The fact that he's manipulated two women into marriage by refusing to acknowledge his infertility until after the fact is not a good sign for his mental state; he is quite clearly harboring a lot of anxiety. It is not your responsibility to cease existing just because you being pregnant bring up bad feelings for her. I'm infertile due to PCOS making my hormones wacky but it's not impossible for me to get pregnant. Sorting Drama: Reddit AITA 7m󰞋󱟠 AITA (23F) for posting a child’s name (12F) on a Facebook 👦 group to find their parent AITA (23F) for posting a child’s name (12F) on a Facebook 👦 group to find their parent 󰍸 󰤦 1 Last viewed on: Feb 15, 2026 AITA for not helping when someone who was tailgating me had an accident and stranded themselves? In case this story gets deleted/removed: AITA for a text message I sent to my potentially infertile daughter? Throwaway account for privacy. I have fertility issues and have been unable to conceive naturally or with fertility medication. It won’t come up, but if it does with people you care about, I’d probably say “I was about to divorce my wife when she fell ill for, what I feel like, was lying to me about wanting children. You can definitely be happy for yourself/the world that someone is infertile and not procreating, but telling them that when they really wish for children, is cruel nonetheless. Sarah got married five years ago, Adam got married four years ago. Which, in itself, is karma. Mar 5, 2025 · A viral Reddit AITA post highlights a woman’s reaction to a friend’s pregnancy announcement. AITAH) submitted 4 hours ago by Infamous_Rate_4322 My husband (36M) and I (34F) have been married for five years and TTC for four. This might be why people have opted to go I accidentally insulted my future daughter in laws infertility and I apologised but after meeting a friend of hers I realised it might not have been enough as she is still quite hurt Help keep the sub engaging! Infertility sucks, and the treatments can really fuck up with your hormones, so if OP is excused for crying because of her hormones, why wouldn't SIL get a pass as well? AITA for letting my infertile friend pretend she was my kids’ mom? For context, my wife (33 F) has a job working five days a week and I (35 M) work from home and take care of my two daughters (3 F) & (4 F). Was she wrong, or was her friend insensitive? Join the discussion. You’re making this about something it’s not. Which is why the conversation around sterility vs infertility is so important imo. A Reddit user feels like her sister is taking her struggles with infertility too far — and the whole community is on her side. There is NOTHING wrong with being infertile and it makes me incredibly sad for him that he's allowed himself to spiral to this point. Your friend probably doesn’t see not needing to use condoms as a “pro” to his wife’s emotionally devastating infertility because he cares more about the emotional distress it causes them than how his dick feels. We’re sharing real-life stories from Reddit’s r/AmITheAsshole, where people debate conflicts with family, friends, relationships, and tough life decisions. Reply reply DrunkOnRedCordial • I dealt with our infertility and got therapy after our loss. Jan 14, 2025 · A Reddit user shared her frustration with her sister's strict boundaries regarding children due to infertility struggles. Plenty of kind, gracious, amazing women are infertile. Jan 12, 2025 · "AITA for using my sister's words against her and saying she should feel lucky to have her kids and to have all that time with them?" I (32f) have been lower contact with my sister, Jade (33f), for almost three years now. 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